Everyone
dances. Toddlers in elders’ arms. Grandmothers who can barely walk. The
father’s friends who have left behind home and hearth and place of work to be
here today. Brothers, sisters, cousins, relations by marriage, relations by
business, relations by family ties deep rooted, often ignored, alive again in
the joy of being together. Friends. Friends of friends. Their acquaintances.
Young men chasing skirt. Girls basking in the attention.
College
goers stare agape at an uncle who knows the moves for every song played, and
performs with controlled elan. “He’s awesome!” they say, as they break into
cheers and clap their hands to his moves. They seem surprised at the revelation
that the older ones also lived a life like they do now.
Everyone
dances. Including the bride and the groom. It is the togetherness, the crowd,
the occasion, the ambience.
Raunaq.
It is
Blessings. It is Hope. It is Love. And the Prana flows. In thanks to God for
this moment. For the young couple who brought it about. For the stars in their
eyes. For the innocent purity of their love. May it ever be so. May they have
their share of sadness and challenges, and rise above them stronger and deeper
in understanding and tolerance, and Thanks. May someone translate to them the
words that are sung out in the place of worship as they walk around the
presence of the guru.
The
dance is a prayer.
Everyone lives in one’s own world of children, parents, friends, heartache, tragedy, wants,
needs, problems. Everyone has reason to give in to the elation of the moment,
and dance.
The
deep throb of the Punjabi beats. Interspersed with the bawdy lilt of ‘hot’
Bollywood numbers. No other music in
one’s experience can produce such effect, except maybe the throb of the old
Enfield motorcycle held by the knees….. and the tune of an Aarti rising from
the heart.
Everyone
dances. For what could have been. For what has been. For what is now. For what
seems possible in this moment. In this coming together. In this start of a new
life with the morning rays of hope, love, warmth, innocence, faith.
The
father who lost a young son dances the hardest, from deep inside. He celebrates
all other sons. He has been touched. He knows God. The grandma losing the
battle to age and health dances the hardest. She celebrates having been there
and seen it all. The uncle who is overwhelmed by the presence of the nephews
and nieces from far away dances hardest. The father who is celebrating
being with his daughter and wants to transmit joy to the son across the globe
dances the hardest. The son who feels the blessings of so many gone by dances
the hardest. The mother who hopes to marry her son off soon dances the hardest.
Dancing
brings hope. Marriages-gone-sour dance, living again the moments of truth that
are far sweeter than their meaningless squabbles. Celebrating a new beginning.
Today, they ponder over giving it another shot. Marriages-looking-sweet dance. On hope. What-has-been dances for what-could-have-been, what-can-still-be.
Still-deeply-in-love dances.
Still-deeply-in-love dances.
When
love comes on, everything pales in comparison. It is very powerful, this love
that encompasses hope and faith and celebrates what is. We often cling to the
ill-will and the ‘problems’, yet, whenever it gets a chance, this love creeps
in, unseen, unheard, and takes us unawares.
Prana
flows. Dance is never about alcohol. Joy makes one dance. Hope makes one dance.
And then dance itself intoxicates. Dance begets dance, and everyone dances.